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Pippin friendica
Finally, I've had an email with proposed dates for the solar panel installation. And now I'm in a horrible mood and feeling awful and I can only assume it's anxiety about the install, and how it has to be done on a specific schedule, and I've got to have everything prepared for those dates (space cleared for them to work, etc), and I don't know what cable routing they are going to do and if they can't do what I want to ask for they're going to come up with something else and I'll have to make a decision there and then whether that's okay, and there will be pressure to get it done that day and it'll probably be so expensive if I have to say I need to think about it and replan things and get them to come back another day to finishe, and oh god oh god oh god. I am also putting off phoning about the car and bike servicing that needs to be done because I hate phoning them, and I also need to phone British Gas about getting a meter reader to our old house to finally get the account updated with the new meters that were installed nearly 18 months ago but they are *still* sending my dad estimated bills based on the old meters, and oh god oh god oh god again. I HATE interacting with people and companies, it's just so horrible.
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Pippin friendica
Or maybe I just haven't drunk enough water today. -.-
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gonna throw this one out there, it's how I'd approach it if it were me... maybe it's useful?

Hopefully the email you got has a reply address? If so, that's your in - if it were me I'd drop them an email, ask if they'd mind explaining in detail exactly what prep they need you to do (providing access/clearing space for X).

Regarding the cable routing, whoever came out must have drawn up some kind of a plan (maybe back of a napkin? 😜). You could ask for a copy.

Most importantly though - be honest, explain what you're anxious about.. Express that you'd rather they communicate in writing (via email for example).

On an adjacent note, communication being in writing is also beneficial in the event that there is any mixup/mistakes - as there's a clear contemporaneous document that lays out exactly what you asked for, were told, when, by who, etc!

Also - how you feel about pressure, the phone, being put on the spot re decisions face to face etc. These are all customer needs.

If you spell them out, its not the kind of thing they can just say no to! πŸ™‚

Pippin friendica
@TheDragon πŸ”₯ Actually, they've been pretty good so far. They have done almost everything by email, we had a visit from a surveyor a few months ago where they checked stuff and made plans (didn't go into every detail of cable routing etc though), and there's a whole glossy PDF document with all the details… so really I have nothing to complain about. I'm just anxious anyway, for no real reason. πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ But thank you :]
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ahh that's perhaps not as bad as I feared it may have been...

I've honestly hated having to say I need communication like this, and sadly I've had to be extremely forceful in some circumstances - just to get communication in a format that is accessible for me.

Sadly it's had consequences too - for example, one credit card company offered an interest free repayment plan... Really cool huh? Well... Only if you phoned them... I couldn't email and ask for it, I couldn't even do snail mail....

So I complained to them, got nowhere, had to go to the Ombudsman not one, or twice, three times!!

All occasions they ruled in my favour... I got a small amount of compensation, but still not the same thing they offered people without a disability.

The end result was they terminated my account. Presumably because people like me are not worth the effort... 😞

I think my aspie brain struggles with injustice, especially when I've experienced it myself, so always encourage people to stand up for their rights!

Anyhow, apologies if I was projecting a bit!

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Pippin friendica
@TheDragon πŸ”₯ Heheh, no worries! Thank you for looking out for me :)
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